I have been wanting to post this for a very long time already, but due to some people getting or being butt hurt on facebook quickly I ended up not too...
I just ended up posting it actually today, a year later.
I can't remember where I've read this, but a lot of things had me thinking about it.
"People DO NOT change, they show you exactly who they are."
If you ask me that a few years back I would proudly tell you that I do believe and give people the benefit of the doubt that they can change for the better just as how I treat myself that I can change for the better every day.
I was wrong. One shitty person and you're going to feel that everybody is just as shitty as they truly are.
People don't change their habits, ways and actions.
I thought one person's going to treat me different if I prove how much my worth is.... I'm wrong.
People will take you as is the way they see you.
Unfortunately, that's the way life is.
Don't be stupid enough to believe that even though you gave them every single reason to show them that you are valuable that they will hold you to it, they won't.
I've seen that happened to me and that was quite disappointing.
"I shouldn't have to coerce, convince, rationalize, trick, manipulate, buy or plead with ANYONE to love me; either you do or you don't."
PS. I've definitely learned that the hard way.
This is straightforward.
Do not force anything that is not meant to be.
When something fits right it will fit perfectly.
In the meantime, live your life to the fullest and don't worry about the others.
Be selfish in loving yourself, because this will make you whole again.
